What is Psychology?
One thing that I love about psychology is that
there are lots of approaches to look at an issue. I'm not really a black
and white type of gal. I definitely feel comfortable in the gray area.
I don't like rules. I like guidelines, so if a guideline doesn't
seem to "fit" I can "bend" it. I don't like making
decisions about WHAT specifically caused someone to do something. In
psychology there aren't a lot of absolutes... It addresses problems by looking
at ALL sides of an issue and what factors MAY HAVE contributed to those issues.
I caught this story a few months ago: it was a
mother who was driving herself, and her three kids into the ocean. (And it
was caught on tape!). I was thinking to myself "what in the
#$%^&* heck would make someone do that?" So, let's
say we were trying to figure that question out using approaches to psychology.
It might look something like this:
1. Neuroscience approach: Maybe
she had a head injury that made her make some really horrible decisions.
Perhaps she had a stroke and lost control of the car and it veered off
the road and towards the ocean. Perhaps her hormones were off sorts and
caused her to be in a not-quite-right frame of mind (post-partum depression) or
maybe she was on drugs and that clouded her judgment.
2. Behavioral approach: Perhaps
there was some sort of 'reward' motivation for her behavior. Maybe she
wanted to get caught and get some help she obviously needed. Maybe she
wanted to be infamous. Maybe she was mad at her partner and wanted
to show them just how mad she really was.
3. Psychodynamic approach:
Perhaps she didn't feel loved by her parents or
subconsciously didn't feel deserving of being a mother.
4. Humanistic approach: Perhaps
she felt overwhelmed and not supported by her community. Maybe she could
be a good mother, if given some support.
5. Cognitive approach: Maybe she
got some bad news (fired from her job, not able to pay the bills) and simply
struggled to put that into perspective, so it might just be easier to take
herself, and her children out. Obviously, there was a breakdown in her decision-making
abilities.
6. Evolutionary approach: Okay,
bare with me here... This may boil down to survival of the fittest.
If she's not capable of making good decisions, then she may just not be
'fit' enough to survive. She wasn't equipped to adapt to her
environment.
7. The Sociocultural approach: Our
society is tough! Are there enough resources out there to help people who
are struggling mentally, emotionally, and financially? It isn't really
acceptable to say "Hey! I'm struggling and thinking about hurting
myself and my children". Was something wrong with her, or did we fail
as a community because we couldn't stop something like this happening?
While I don't know why this woman would drive
her kids into the ocean, I suspect several factors mentioned above could be
contributors. My point is, that each of these approaches bring a new
dynamic to the table to consider. Each approach has pros and cons.
With psychology we don't have to be 'all in' on a particular theory. We can look at situations from lots of different view points to consider many different factors. It's important to remember that these perspectives aren't in competition with each other, but often work best when integrated together.
I remember when she did that and I as a Mother could not understand. But then I sat back and thought I am not in her shoes and I pray that I do not ever experience the thoughts or lack there of, that would make me want to do something to my family or even myself. I do agree with you on your statements about you do not have to be "all in" with one theory, there could in fact be multiple issues going on that are from each area. Maybe she received bad news about not feeling loved, it caused her to faint and sustain an injury, she was not strong enough to over come her need for acceptance and sought out fame to try and get her the help from someone in the community. Phew, I think I hit them all.
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